Get Back Your Ex Boyfriend

MAKE EX WANT ME

If you're trying to win an ex boyfriend back, you already know how hard this one is: making him want you again.

Is there some kind of magic formula here? Something you can do to make him see you the way he used to?

Actually, the good news is YES.

Every single breakup has a reflection phase. This is where the dumper look back upon the dumpee, and asks the question: "Hey... did I just do the right thing?"

Now when this happens, your ex boyfriend can see one of two things:

• A crying, sobbing, wreck of an ex girlfriend. One who begs him not to end the relationship, or pleads with him to give things "one more chance". One who promises to change, or that things will be different... one who sits by the phone waiting for his calls or text-messages, and then doesn't want to get off the phone when he does call.

• A girl who's laughing, smiling, and hanging with friends. The breakup hasn't affected her at all. She's happy and confident and she hasn't called or tried to contact him even once; basically, she appears to have moved on to better things, and with lightning-fast speed, to boot.

Now the first girl is desperate, needy, and - let's face it - totally lame.

The second girl is DESIRABLE.

Yes... desirable. Seeing you in that second scenario will INSTANTLY change the way your ex boyfriend looks at you, your past relationship, and even the break up. Suddenly he's not so sure about losing you, because it appears you totally have your shit together. You don't seem to care about the relationship as much as he did. Uh oh.

Things That Will Change Your Ex Boyfriend's Mind

You have to look at reconciliation as a negotiation. The more you bring to the table, the better the chances of getting what you want.

If you RUSH to the table with nothing (i.e. trying to get back together right after he breaks up with you), you're going to lose him. He'll know you have nothing new to offer, and the breakup will stand.

However, if you were to bring these 7 important things to the negotiation table, you can easily change the way he sees a potential relationship with you.

In short, you can reverse the breakup.

The funny thing is, most of these things are easy. There are certain behaviors that will inherently make your ex want you more. Yes, even if he's not talking to you. Yes, even if you think he's not looking over his shoulder (which he is). And yes, finally, even if it looks like he's moving on... with another girl or alone.

Reminding Him of How it Used to Be

Remember the very beginning of your relationship? Shooting stars, fireworks, mind-blowing sex... all that endless time you spent together because you couldn't get enough of each other?

Well that's the 'honeymoon stage' of the romance. Everyone has one. And everyone loves it.

Most of all, everyone strives to get back to that stage. Even couples who are still dating, and haven't broken up, are looking to blow the dust off their existing relationship and bring back the beautiful shine it had back at the very beginning.

The good news is that strong emotional bonds formed during that stage of your relationship. These bonds are awesome and powerful; they live in your exboyfriend's memory just as they live in yours. And just because he broke up with you? That doesn't mean those bonds are forever gone.

Those emotional connections are all still there. To make sure the breakup 'sticks', your ex has done the smart thing: he's tried to BURY them.

How to Unbury Your Exboyfriend's Old Feelings For You

Remember how he saw you? How wanted and needed you always felt; that incredible light in his eyes when he first looked at you?

Unbreakable bonds were formed during those times. Your boyfriend knows it, which is why probably doesn't want to talk right now. Just seeing you will force him to face those feelings. Just talking to you will cause him to dredge up the emotional connections he's currently trying to bury.

And the longer your breakup goes on? The deeper those feelings get buried. Wait too long, and they'll be gone for good. The "you'll always have a special place in my heart" is exactly what your boyfriend is referring to when he utters that phrase. But 'always' isn't forever when it comes to a break up. Eventually, if the two of you don't reconcile? Your ex WILL move on.

For this reason it's extremely important to make him want you quickly, before things get too far gone. The more positive behaviors you can exhibit, and the less mistakes you make after the breakup, the easier it will be to get back with him.

Having a Step by Step Plan is VITAL to Getting Him Back

Think about this: would you go into a very important situation without a plan? Especially one where the outcome could so crucially affect your direct future?

This is why getting an ex back requires a step-by-step plan. "Trying" things and hoping they'll work just won't cut it. Not when you're emotions are on the line and the stakes are so high.

Win Back Love    by Annalynn Caras
This step-by-step guide to fixing your breakup will teach you all the DO's and DON'T's of getting your ex back.

Get started by watching author Annalynn Caras' free video, and then learn exactly which reversal techniques are the right moves for your particular breakup situation.

Remember: there are keys to unlock EVERY situation, no matter how hopeless your break up might seem.